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How the menopause can impact symptoms of incontinence
Why symptoms worsen during menopause
The role of oestrogen
Hormonal shifts caused by the menopause affect the body in a lot of ways, many of which can make symptoms of incontinence worse. For example:
1. Thinning of vaginal and urethral walls
2. Decreased muscle strength
3. Changes in your bladder’s behaviour
- Increased frequency of urination
- A sudden and urgent need to urinate
- Incomplete emptying of the bladder
- Stress incontinence – caused by things like coughing, sneezing, or exercise.
- Urge incontinence – a sudden, intense urge to pee followed by leakage.
- Overflow incontinence – when your bladder doesn’t completely empty. Which leads to frequent dribbles.
- Functional incontinence – physical or mental impairment prevents getting to the toilet in time.
4. Weight gain
Lifestyle tips to manage menopause-related incontinence
Managing urinary incontinence during menopause can be a challenge, but it’s not impossible. With some lifestyle adjustments While incontinence during menopause can be challenging, several lifestyle adjustments can help manage symptoms effectively.
1. Maintain a healthy weight
You don’t need to train like an athlete, but it might be worth dusting off that old Davina McCall workout DVD. If you’re carrying some extra weight, it can’t hurt to lose a few pounds. As we’ve mentioned before, excess weight can put additional pressure on your bladder, making symptoms worse. Staying active and eating a balanced diet can help you ease up some of the pressure on your bladder.
Low-impact exercises to try
Everyone is different, with different abilities. The exercises listed below are just a general example, so if you find you can’t do them, don’t beat yourself up about it. If there’s any alternatives that you can try instead, go for it!
- Walking: Walking is an excellent, low-impact way to maintain overall fitness. Not to mention, it’s also great for your mental health.
- Yoga: Ready for zen? Yoga is brilliant for mobility and some poses will even help to strengthen your pelvic floor muscles.
- Swimming: Swimming deserves a mention as a joint-friendly exercise known for building strength and aiding weight loss.
2. Strengthen your pelvic floor muscles
A strong pelvic floor is one of the very best ways to manage urinary incontinence in the long term. The muscles form a supportive hammock at the base of your pelvis. As we’ve mentioned before, the pelvic floor is super important, playing a vital role in bladder, uterus, and rectal support, as well as spinal stability and continence. Impressive, right?
Pelvic floor exercises are incredibly simple and can be done discreetly, anytime and anywhere. One of the most effective exercises is the classic Kegel. Here’s how to do it:
- Empty your bladder before starting.
- Imagine stopping the flow of urine mid-stream or holding in gas.
- You should feel a contraction in your pelvic area.
- Hold this contraction for 3–5 seconds, then release.
- Rest for 3–5 seconds and repeat.
- Perform this exercise sitting, standing, or lying down.
Want more ideas? Check out our YouTube video where personal trainer Natalie Small demonstrates effective pelvic floor exercises to keep your bladder in great shape.

3. Make changes to your diet
This is probably nobodies favourite thing to do. But, keep in mind we’re not talking about making any drastic dietary changes. There are some small additions you can make, as well as some things to avoid that can make a significant difference to your incontinence symptoms.
Food & drink to include in your diet to help with incontinence:
- Water
- Cranberries:
- Fruit, vegetables & whole grains
- Leafy greens
- Bananas
Food & drink to avoid in your diet to help with incontinence:
- Coffee (caffeine in general)
- Alcohol
- Spicy food
4. Stay Hydrated
It might seem logical to cut back on fluids if you’re dealing with incontinence, but this can actually make things worse. Dehydration leads to dark, concentrated urine that irritates the bladder and increases UTI risk.
Proper hydration keeps your urine diluted, which helps avoid irritation. A simple way to check if you’re drinking enough is to observe the color of your urine—it should resemble the pale golden hue of champagne (the drink isn’t necessary, just the color!).
By staying hydrated, you’re giving your bladder the best chance to function well and keeping UTIs at bay, especially during the hotter months.
Medicine and supplements
1. Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT)
2. Bladder training
3. Bladder supplements

Take care of your mental and emotional wellbeing
Living with incontinence can impact mental health. It’s a constant challenge and for some people, a cause of stress and embarrassment. With 14 million people in the UK experiencing some form of bladder leakage, it really shouldn’t be this way.
Normalise the experience: Remind yourself that incontinence is a common condition experienced by millions of people worldwide. Sharing your experiences with supportive friends, family, or joining a support group can provide a safe space to discuss and get some perspective on your situation.
Educate yourself: Understanding the causes and management techniques for incontinence can help you regain a sense of control and empowerment. Knowledge about available treatments, exercises, and lifestyle changes can significantly improve your quality of life and boost confidence.
Open and honest conversations: Encouraging open and honest conversations about incontinence can help normalise what you’re experiencing and create a safe space for people to share their experiences. By breaking the silence and speaking openly about your incontinence, we can promote understanding and compassion, while also offering support and solidarity to those who may be struggling.
Support groups and networks: Joining or starting support groups and networks specifically for individuals with incontinence can be seriously beneficial. They provide an opportunity for people to connect with others facing similar challenges, share advice, exchange coping strategies, and offer emotional support. By fostering a sense of community, these groups can help combat feelings of isolation and empower you to overcome the stigma associated with incontinence.